Who's Proposing Marriage February 29th?
This year is a leap year, do you know what that means? You're right, it means that there will be 29 days in February (did the title give it away?) and it means that it's a presidential election year. Did you also know that February 29th is considered Sadie Hawkins day? February 29th exists to fix a problem in the calendar (this is not a problem that I don't understand, but that's how the story goes folks). Way back in time, it was assumed that this date could also be used to fix the old custom that only let men propose marriage. This was the one day that women could cut loose and go wild and ask a man to marry them! Woot, party on women!!!
These days, there's nothing stopping women from proposing, but we all know that most don't. I guess some women are just old fashioned that way. If you are one of those old fashioned women, you now have license to propose to your man (dare we call it poetic license?!?)! This opportunity only presents itself once every four years, so if you don't muster up the courage to do it in a few weeks, you won't get the chance again until 2012. OMG, is it just me or does that year look totally futuristic?!?
Personally, I think it would be more entertaining to get married on February 29th. Oooh, so maybe you break tradition and propose on Valentine's Day and then run off and get married on February 29th. What do you think? Is it romantic or crazy?
It does beg the question of how anniversaries would be celebrated. Once every 4 years, on both February 28th and March 1st or for the whole month of February? What would you do in that situation? Certainly, the people who have gotten married on February 29th in years past worked through these details prior to getting married, right? Or, maybe they get divorced the following year because they failed to plan for anniversary celebrations. Doh!
I don't know, I'm no marriage expert. I'm not even a fan of marriage, so don't ask me how these things should work. I was just fancied by the mystery of February 29th and the archaic tradition of Sadie Hawkins day. What do you think?
Happy Searching/Shopping,
Payton






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